Another View on Living in Mexico

Title: My Life in Mexico
Type of website: Personal blog of retired Californian living in the State of Durango
Excellent source of...: Detailed information on what it takes and what it is like to live as a retired person in a non-touristy, normal city in Mexico.

Sometimes I find interesting websites by looking at the people that have come to see our website, Yucatan Living. While perusing the 'referring pages' in my Webstats statistics, I came across the website of Mr. Rolly Brooks, a fellow former Californian.

Behind the humble design and everyday language of this website is a wealth of information for anyone interested in moving to Mexico to live a normal, everyday life. Lerdo, Durango, is not a tourist hot spot and probably doesn't have a large gringo population. So the photos and the stories and the subject matter are all about typical Mexican life, as seen through the eyes of a gringo who is very privileged (and apparently grateful) to have been adopted by a large extended Mexican family (is there any other kind?).

The website has a brief tour that explains how Rolly got to Mexico, shows photos of his neighborhood and family and then takes you to a page with links to other parts of the website. There are photo essays on street vendors, houses and churches in his neighborhood. There are instructions on how to make a piñata or tortillas. There is even a photo essay on how they make my favorite kind of brooms (though I have never seen *green* ones!).

Rolly has done a few building projects, both in the US and Mexico. The website includes some very detailed photo essays of those projects, which will be of great interest to anyone thinking of building in Mexico. One of them even includes all the costs of the project. And there are two very useful pages with photos of tools and building materials and their Spanish names.

While this website is not professionally designed, it is easy to navigate. And it has a wealth of information...after living here for four years (though in another part of Mexico), I learned a lot from this website.

But what I love about this site is what isn't said expressly, the story that emerges from behind the photos and stories of Mexico. This man, Mr. Brook, who self-admittedly looks a lot like Santa Claus, seems to have left the United States under difficult circumstances. Because he seems to have treated well a man he hired to work with him years ago, he was invited to live in Mexico with that man's family. And because he had the courage to accept this generous invitation, he has had the good fortune to have been accepted into another way of life that it seems he is fully enjoying. His life in Mexico may be more humble, and he may not have as many 7-11's within one mile of his home, but he appears to have a rich life full of family, children, fiestas, explorations and the daily pleasures of learning about a culture that is new to him. And what better culture to be learning about? The Mexican culture is as deep and wide as the Rio Grande, rich with stories and traditions, colored with the pain and suffering and joys of generations that have created it. And Rolly Brook appears to be in it up to his elbows, enjoying every minute of the adventure.

Mr. Rolly Brook is a lucky man and I feel lucky to have shared his life through this website.